Good Morning!
What should we talk about today?
Quote of the Day
“I am determined to be cheerful and happy in whatever situation I may find myself. For I have learned that the greater part of our misery or unhappiness is determined not by our circumstance but by our disposition.”
Martha Washington
A friend posted this on Facebook yesterday and I love it: 12/12/12 happens once in a lifetime. Just like every other date. That’s how dates work.
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First? Couldn’t sleep (the hazards of being off work for a while) so listened to a sermon by John MacArthur — grace! — how really amazing it is.
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Ok, so second.
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Kind of nice being up in the middle of the night knowing you can sleep in. And it’s raining.
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6 more inches of snow yesterday 🙂
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I think this saying by Martha Washington is fairly true. As someone who has battled depression in the past and may again, I think we can wallow in our own self pity. I have found that nothing is bad in the light of day…if I can just make it until tomorrow morning it will be better. If all else fails if I can drag myself out into the sunshine it will be better. If I can tell myself life isn’t fair–that’s life and if I can tell myself life is good, it isn’t always great but it is always good…I can make it.
Please continue to pray for Baby Girl. She managed to push her father just a little too far last night so I spent part of my evening listening to each of them rant about the other.
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We’re thinking about starting a Blog. Not the usual kind, I am not deep enough for that, but Hubby was trying to think of a way to share his Grandmother’s recipes and I have always wanted to do a “Low sew, No Sew, Mommy’s guide to Cheap and Easy Costume Making” book and a blog might be the way to try out some ideas.
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Sounds like Baby Girl is starting to try to spread her wings, Kim. From the Father of two girls and one boy, I never really wanted to see our daughters grow up to be women. I always wanted them to stay my precious baby girls. In fact , when my daughters and I text each other, I always call each of them baby. It probably sounds a bit condescending, but I do cherish my girls and I guess they will always be my baby girls even though they are both grown women. Cindi calls Andy her baby boy. At any rate, If I am being too much of a busybody, I apologize, but I suspect most of the guys here feel the same way about their daughters.
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“Tomorrow is another day”.
Scarlet O’Hair in GWTW.
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Vacation Starts today. On the road all day tomorrow.
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Chas, I just used that quote to get out of making a clutter cleaning decision..
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I don’t know what happened to my previous post. But it doesn’t matter. I think I found a way to do it.
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The audio is weak. You need to turn the volume up.
I’m praying that drivesguy will have a safe and uneventful trip.
Looks like the weather will be ok in that part of the midwest.
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I don’t know either Chas.
I checked the SPAM filter, but it wasn’t there. Just some Nike’s, handbags, and assorted prescription drug offers.
😦
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Thanks for all the birthday wishes and kind thoughts yesterday. Nothing says getting old like the presents one receives: diabetes monitoring kit and heating pads! LOL
Then I found a flip calendar that I never look at with Encouraging Words for each day. Today’s quote: “As outward beauty disappears one must hope it goes in!” That is from Tennessee Williams. Just what I needed to hear for encouragement since I turned 59 yesterday. Another, LOL!
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I like Martha Washington’s quote better.
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This is from a professor at Howard University: “All social pathologies are linked to fatherlessness.” Agree or disagreee?
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Adios, it’s a pretty sweeping statement and I guess I’d have to know more about his or her reasoning. But an interesting premise, especially in a society where “fatherlessness” has become more the norm (rather than just an exception to the rule).
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Adios,
Interesting. I read the Professor’s piece, if I have the correct one. Are you talking about Stephen Baskerville? I also read some others on the same topic including one from last year by Bill Muehlenberg. Interesting indeed.
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Adios,
Here’s the piece I read, but it’s from 2004. Things have actually worsened since then, and a lot of his points have been proven correct.
.http://familyrights.us/bin/white_papers-articles/fatherhood_crisis/
“Abstract: Virtually every major social pathology has been linked to fatherless children: violent crime, drug and alcohol abuse, truancy, unwed pregnancy, suicide, and psychological disorders—all correlating more strongly with fatherlessness than with any other single factor. Tragically, however, government policies intended to deal with the “fatherhood crisis” have been ineffective at best because the root cause is not child abandonment by fathers but policies that give mothers an incentive to initiate marital separation and divorce.”
Anyone who knows a divorced man with kids knows how accurate that last sentence is.
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Here’s the other, from last year. He uses the British riots to prove his point.
http://www.billmuehlenberg.com/2011/08/12/lessons-from-the-british-riots/
“In particular, three major lessons can be adduced from all this, as I suggested two days ago. The first is the harmful effects of family breakdown. Many commentators have rightly noted how a half-century of family breakdown, the erosion of marriage, and an assault on two-parent families is now bearing ugly fruit, big time.”
“The second and related lesson is the debilitating impact of the modern welfare state. This simply tends to increase dependency, irresponsibility, and apathy. The very virtues needed to maintain a strong and tight-knit community tend to be unravelled in the welfare state.”
“And a third lesson is this: it is time to lay to rest the old leftist clichés about such situations. We have seen again the folly of those on the left rehashing old Marxist analysis of such riots. The old leftist claims that these troubles are reflections of a war between rich and poor – the old class struggle, in other words – just don’t wash here. The left has been pushing this line at least since Lenin, but it really is beginning to wear a bit thin.”
Good stuff.
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chadwjh @ 11:52
While teaching a SS class years ago, I mentioned how important fathers were to childhood development.
But then I said, “It is possible for a child to go bad without any help from parents, church, school or society.”
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AJ @ 14. I suspect it was my fault. I have noticed that if I click “post” briefly, it will not take. I have to hold it at least half second. I could lose it if I don’t check the post.
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AJ, remove my post above, the link is wrong. Here’s the correct video:
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AJ, that they guy! Thanks for posting that. I scribbled down the quote and then couldn’t remember the guys name.
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Michelle,
What post?
🙂
Adios,
You’re welcome. It’s a good read. Check the other one too if you have time.
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Chas,
I like the song. BUT, I do want to point out that the video (incorrectly) has the wise men at the stable again!! AUGH!
😉
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And Joseph? A Hebrew man without a beard?? Not done.
Picky, picky, picky. ;-p
But, the movie still looks interesting … as long as I’m allowed to rant during the incorrect parts! 🙂
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I want to sign up for KBells blog!!!
Fear of a father is a good thing.
As an ongoing example of loving my job we now have 1pm book club. We are reading Dave Ramsey’s EntreLeadership.
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Here is a link to something I received on e-mail about WordPress for AJ and anyone else who has a blog on it. Thought you might find something useful in the information if you have not already seen it.
http://www.websitecreationworkshop.com/blog/wordpress-tips/wordpress-3-5-is-out-elvin/
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I finally had a chance to watch Chas’ Mary Did You Know and Michelle’s I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day. Nice, both! Thanks for posting the music that blesses the season.
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I do like Kbell’s blog idea. My church does a lot with drama so some of those costume ideas might be used by chuirch programs. That would be one possibility for a following.
My paperwhite Kindle came today. Now I will have to get it set up to use. I think it will be a project for a fresh morning brain (after at least one cup of coffee).
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Thank you Janice.
🙂
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Hey, did anyone else notice that Santa dumped his pipe in the forest and at least one of the trees is now burning? The reindeer aren’t happy about it–they always did think Santa only has an image of being compassionate and considerate (he sure works them pretty hard), but only Rudolph is currently in favor of turning him in as the one who started that fire. . . .
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Is that how Rudolf got that red nose? Did it get blistered in the fire? No wonder he wants to turn Santa in for all his burnt nose troubles.
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Chas,
In regard to the sound on the video/audio recommendation I made yesterday … it plays great for me, so I’m wondering if there’s an issue with your computer?
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